Wednesday, June 18, 2008

Sad, Misfortune, Blur, Lost, What else?

There's so much to say recently... ...

1. Got news from my mother that a cousin of mine is going tru divorce, becos her husband is having an affair again. Guess what, before they were together her husband is having an affair with her and he broke off with his then 6-7yrs girlfriend. So what does it mean? A leopard never changes its spots / retribution? The worst thing is none of the above but their four yrs old gal. Will she understand what is happening? Will she grow to hate her father? Will she grow to feel incomplete? Why does it have to happen? My cousin gave up her job to look after their precious gal & new home, but instead she was slap with which cruel truth. Ladies out there, remember to hold on to your job no matter how tough the goings get. With a job you can better fight for the custody for your child. & you might still have the saying at home, as you do not need to relay solely on 1 person to support you & the family.

2. Another cousin, admitted herself to KK hospital due to severe tummy ache, to her horror, the doc diagnose it as water in the kidney. She on the other hand is the sole breadwinner in the family, supporting her mother and a brother whom have yet settle down on a career nor family. Will have to wait for the final report & what doc suggest should be done. The fact is, she eats so healthy that it is just hard to believe that she is down with god knows what.

3. Yet another cousin of mine, whom have 4 children, a happy family and a capable hubby. But she was also admitted to hospital due to severe headache. After much scanning and checks, the doctor found out that there’s a hole in her brain. This is believed to be due to stress building up over the years that this hole appears. Within short notice, the doc operates on her spine to stop the hole from enlarging. Haven got time to go see her now, but heard from god-ma that she has become very skinny. Why is god so unfair? She loves kids so much that she tried to conceive for almost 6 yrs before she had her very 1st boy. When everyone told her to stop trying but to adopt, she got pregnant again with the 2nd boy. All in all, she gave birth to 3 boys and adopted a gal. Such lovely lady but yet... ...

4. My sis-in-law, finally got a boyfriend but she was not blessed but instead disapproval was sounded. Because... ... of many issues. I’m not sure too myself by telling her that maybe a person will change. Look at story (1), it does not reflect that a person will change does it?



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